One thing that bothers me the most is when people do not take any accountability for their mistakes but expect others too.

I am someone who constantly likes to self reflect, now I’m not sure how healthy that is but I always try and reflect on how I handled a situation or someone’s feelings because I want to know if I have impacted someone negatively. Now I’m not saying this this a full proof way of doing things because I’m sure I still miss points where I may have handled things in the wrong way or hurt someone’s feelings, but it sure does minimise how many times this does happen.

I know you can’t force people to self reflect or even acknowledge when they may have hurt or handled something the wrong way but it does bother me when you point it out and they still refuse to take accountability for how they may have made you feel or how their actions may have affected you or someone else in a bad way intentional or not!!

I think taking accountability is a beautiful trait in people especially when it comes naturally ❤️